Nowadays, one night stand is the most rewarding form of sex, Athens Escorts say. And at the same time the most dangerous in making serious mistakes. Both socially and others with serious consequences for health, physical and mental.
While in practice it is a kind of agreement between adults on the one hand the -apparently- relaxed framework, on the other hand the fact that one of the two sides is lying -in itself, mainly- and the consequences of that one night, can “chase “one of these two or both sides for a long time.
Because most people forget that this kind of sex – like everything in this life – has rules. Less of course than a normal relationship, but substantial. And this is what those who indulge in this kind of sexual intercourse usually forget.
Always wear a condom
Unfortunately, this is not understood and its absence can cause serious problems. Sexually Transmitted Diseases are not a fairy tale for naughty children. It is a harsh reality, in which no one wants to have a role. And after clarifying this – for the purely physical part – let us look at the soul.
We do not lie about our identity
The world is small. It is better not to say a name – as the saying goes – than to introduce ourselves falsely or with the name and status of a friend (very bad idea). We say the basics, without much detail. They will not be needed, after all. Anything more like Russian roulette.
We clarify our intention from the beginning
Politely, but without twists and we make sure that the partner is able to understand what we are saying (he is not under the influence of alcohol, etc.) and does not seem to hesitate. Anything else can have from relatively painless, yet annoying, consequences, to legal. Be careful, then.
We do not provide telephone and other information
The agreement has specific terms and the exchange of messages after the specific night cancels its context. No matter how good the sex with this person is, anything after that one night, fatally acquires another outline. And, to God, “it will stay that way, sex and nothing else” was said by many and they finally found a relationship. A little self-awareness of what one is really looking for does not hurt.
Yes to light talk before and after, no to confessions
For most people, it is difficult to separate the emotional part from the purely physical part. More and more something will be said, more and more there will be an answer and suddenly a conversation. But we are not there for that. The more we talk, the more we reveal parts of ourselves, the more we bond and that makes things very, very difficult.
We respect distances
Because as mentioned above the world is small, there is a chance to meet again with the man who spent such a night. If this happens we do not behave either too intimately or coldly. We behave in the same way we would if we had met this person again at a party or some other social contact. We do not embarrass the other, nor do we make him feel expendable. A little courtesy!
We do not hope
We protect ourselves somewhat, if even for a while we catch him thinking how it would be “otherwise”. There is no “other”. There is the “now” and the specific condition. Emotional involvement in any way will cause mental damage. And that is not what is required.
We do not treat man in front of us as meat
In short, we enjoy what happens with our mouths shut. The comments the next day at work, in groups and with friends show insecurity, zero empathy and no respect for ourselves. After all, for the third time let it be noted that the world is small.
You can only use a condom if you actually have one. And no, it’s not always the man’s job to provide the condom. Everyone’s bedside table should have condoms and water-based lubricant. Women sometimes worry that they will look easy if they have condoms at home, but come on, you have already gone home with a man you just met. The same is true for the man, as he is in the room of a woman he just met. No one has the right to judge anyone.
You are in a hurry
A very common occurrence, especially among beginners at the one night stand, is to develop emotions. In fact, you are not in love, you just think you have a moment of emotional weakness. But it is strange and creepy and no one wants to hear a love confession at any time during the night. Even if you really want to express your love, drunk, to the person you just met at a bar an hour earlier, check yourself because you do not really love him / her.